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Christmas firefighting questions

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Let’s deal wit a fact as a mediator, I can not rarely come up with a funny topic, but my topics with a high chance can lead into funny and peaceful moments. My today’s topic is the "Christmas firefighting”. Statistics on divorce regularly reveal a spike in the number of people separating in the month of January, so we rightly suspected increased tension around Christmas as the last straw. What can we do to prevent tension and conflicts? Let’s take the most critical point! The difference with Christmas compared to the rest of the year is that there is an intense period of approximately two to three weeks which tests any kind of relationships. The present You received a present what makes you understand that they even don’t know who you are?  You should ask yourself the following Christmas firefighting questions: Did I give chance for this people to understand what I am wishing for? If the answer yes: you can still try to have more direct discussion next year. If it won’t work jus...

Karácsonyi tűzoltó kérdések

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Szögezzük le mediátorként ritkán tudok vicces témával előállni, de a témáim nagy eséllyel vezethetnek vicces, békés pillanatokhoz. Egy aktuális témáról készülök írni nektek pár gondolatot,  a "karácsonyi tűzoltás". A válási statisztikák rendszeresen azt mutatják, hogy januárban megugrik a házasságkötések felbontásának a száma, így joggal gyanítjuk, hogy a karácsony körül megnövekedett feszültség az utolsó csepp a pohárban. A karácsonyi időszak abban különbözik az év többi részétől, hogy körülbelül egy két-három hetes időszak nagyon intenzív, amely bármilyen kapcsolatot próbára tesz. Mit tehetünk a feszültségek és konfliktusok elkerülése érdekében?  Tekintsük át a legkritikusabb pontokat! Ajándék   Olyan ajándékot kaptál, ami azt az érzést váltja ki belőled, hogy aki adta azt sem tudja, hogy ki vagy.   Tedd fel magadnak a következő tűzoltó kérdést!  Szántam időt arra, hogy megosszam másokkal mire vágyom?   Ha a válaszod  igen , akkor...

The silent tea set

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Despite struggling with constant fatigue, Kata visited her mother today, as she did every day, after she closed their craft bakery. It was always reassuring to come in. In response to the knock, her mother's smile came from across the window, and within seconds the door opened. After she had spent her entire childhood then her diligent years in the bakery, her legs couldn't take her   so far anymore, bur she really missed the bakery, so she couldn't wait for Kata to report every day what had happened at the bakery and the shop.   - Come on, tell me! Were there any queer shoppers today? - There was really nothing worth mentioning today except this new bundle of orange honey nuts. Come, taste it, and tell me your opinion! They sat down at the kitchen table and her mother opened the package hiding the novelty with sparkling eyes. She took a look, smelled it, and finally bit it, closed her eyes, and tasted it. - I was expecting the taste of lemon peel, but that taste hurled m...

Adopt me because I adapt well - techniques for Generation Z to prevent workplace conflicts

Seriously, what's wrong with being in online game with my buddies the whole night before the university entrance examination? I have prepared for the exam, why my parents can't get it that this is important to me? Such and similar situations make you feel that your parents just don't understand you and your need to become independent begins to grow.   Slowly the time will come to find a job and to be independent of your parents. In fact, I think what happens is that with new job, you also get a new family in addition to the existing one. No worries, if you are aware of a few basic things you can manage your new family with almost no disagreements.   Welcome aboard, Generation Z. What do you need to know to reduce the number of the workplace conflicts caused by generational differences? Before looking into what I mean by getting a new family let's take a quick look at two areas that are important to get the right job response and have been heavily influenced by your f...